Rebel Wilson on Her Sexuality: Loss of Virginity and Peer Pressure

Famous actress Rebel Wilson recently unveiled her journey into sexual self-awareness, revealing intimate experiences that came later in life. Through her story, she emphasizes the beauty of exploring one’s sexuality on one's own terms, regardless of societal expectations.

In a revelation that can resonate with those who consider themselves late bloomers and individuals navigating their sexuality, "Bridesmaids" star Rebel Wilson delved into her personal life with compelling honesty. Her latest candid disclosures about losing her virginity at the age of 35 and her journey toward understanding her sexuality illuminate the pressures of societal expectations and the transformative power of self-acceptance.

As chronicled in her upcoming memoir, "Rebel Rising," set to release on April 2, Rebel told a media outlet that her experience with intimacy began much later than it does for many. "Not everybody has to lose their virginity as a teenager," Rebel recently shared.

She emphasized the importance of waiting until one feels ready with the aim to lift the "pressure" off young individuals who might feel rushed by societal timelines. Rebel’s openness doesn’t just touch on the timing of sexual experiences but also explores the nature of sexual identity and attraction.

Rebel Wilson posing for a picture posted on September 5, 2023 | Source: Instagram/rebelwilson

“If I had been born 20 years later, I probably would've explored my sexuality more," she reflected, acknowledging how societal norms and personal circumstances shaped her understanding of herself.

Reflecting on her youth, Rebel recalled the past discomfort she felt regarding the peer pressure involved in having discussions with others about intimacy. She admitted to feeling "embarrassed," and thought that she would "look like the biggest loser," if she was honest about still being a virgin when her peers weren't while recounting how she would deflect, evade, or exit conversations on the topic to avoid judgment.

Before her recent revelations, Rebel previously spoke about how her role in the drama "The Almond and the Seahorse" played a part in leading to her real-life romantic awakening. During one of the film's scenes, her character shares a kiss with actress Charlotte Gainsbourg's character.

"I’d never kissed a woman before," Rebel revealed to Maria Shriver in 2022, indicating how the role presented an avenue for a journey of self-discovery and ultimately her relationship with sustainable clothing designer Ramona Agruma.

Rebel Wilson at the premiere of "The Almond and the Seahorse" during the 18th Zurich Film Festival in Zurich, Switzerland on September 26, 2022 | Source: Getty Images
Charlotte Gainsbourg at the Saint Laurent Womenswear Fall/Winter 2024-2025 show in Paris, France on February 27, 2024 | Source: Getty Images

Further deepening her exploration of love and intimacy, in the recent anecdotes she spoke about, Rebel also opened up about a poignant encounter she experienced with a female tennis player. This relationship—described by Rebel Wilson as "cracking open" her heart—introduced her to a depth of feeling she had not previously comprehended.

"I wasn't open to intimacy that much back then, so I never allowed myself to feel real feelings. And then the first time was with the tennis player," she disclosed, reflecting on the transformative nature of this connection.

Rebel's revelations extend beyond her personal narrative as they serve as a beacon for others wrestling with their identity and the timing of their experiences. Her openness about the evolution of her sexuality—from the pressures of conforming to heteronormative expectations to embracing a broader spectrum of attraction—reveals how fluid and complex human desire can be.

Now engaged to Ramona and a mother to their beloved daughter, Royce Lillian Elizabeth Wilson, her journey from self-doubt to self-discovery encapsulates a message of hope and acceptance for those who may be feeling adrift in their paths.

Rebel Wilson, Royce Lillian Elizabeth Wilson and Ramona Agruma posing for a picture posted on January 2, 2024 | Source: Instagram/rebelwilson
Royce Lillian Elizabeth Wilson in a picture posted on January 2, 2024 | Source: Instagram/rebelwilson
Royce Lillian Elizabeth Wilson in a picture posted on January 2, 2024 | Source: Instagram/rebelwilson
Royce Lillian Elizabeth Wilson in a picture posted on January 2, 2024 | Source: Instagram/rebelwilson

With "Rebel Rising" set to hit the shelves soon, readers and fans alike may perhaps find in Rebel's words a mirror to their vulnerabilities and an affirmation that it's never too late to find oneself. Her story, marked by authenticity and courage, reminds us of the importance of living one's truth, a message that ties back to the heart of her revelations and the essence of her memoir.

Read a story about another instance in which Rebel showed a more vulnerable side of herself while being honest about her weight and health journey.

Rebel Wilson, famed for her role in the "Pitch Perfect" franchise, has been open about her weight loss journey. She recently shared an Instagram photo highlighting her beauty despite gaining weight. In the photo, Wilson and Novak Djokovic pose together, with Wilson stylishly clad in dark pants, a striped shirt, and a pale pink blazer.

Rebel Wilson posing for a picture posted on January 15, 2024 | Source: Instagram/rebelwilson

The actress has been candid about the motivations behind her weight loss. When she and her partner got engaged and began planning to start a family, a visit to a fertility doctor in 2019 was a turning point. The doctor advised Wilson that losing weight could improve her chances of conceiving.

Wilson, who admitted she often overlooked her own needs, was motivated to become healthier for the sake of her future child. This led to significant weight loss. However, she recently acknowledged gaining back 30 pounds. Wilson opened up on Instagram, saying, "It makes me feel bad about myself…it shouldn't…but it does." She attributed the weight gain to a period of being incredibly busy.

Despite her feelings about the weight gain, Wilson expressed gratitude for her current projects and the support from her fans. She thanked her followers for their kind words on her posts, which, she revealed, brought a tear to her eye.