It’s hard enough to find someone with similar expectations to date, let alone know whether they want a serious relationship unless they spell it out loud.
Often people end up disappointed while dating by investing a lot of their time, energy, and emotions in a relationship, without any certainty about the future. A dating coach claims, there are different tell-tales of a man who isn’t looking for a serious relationship, and the people they follow on Instagram is one of them.
Signs of a man who isn’t looking for a serious relationship
Dating and Confidence Coach, Gabby, claims there are specific traits of an “emotionally immature” man who isn’t looking for anything serious.
No matter what they say or do to keep you hooked, take the below signs as a warning not to end up hurt.
Check who they follow on Instagram
Gabby claims, that the people a man chooses to follow on Instagram tell a lot about his preferences, and if it looks like “they went to an all-women’s boarding school”, he isn’t looking for a serious relationship.
She says these kinds of men look for a “feeling of a relationship”, but wouldn’t commit to you or think about a future together.
Gabby says this is a “foolproof method” to spot a guy who isn’t serious. Whereas, someone willing to commit wouldn’t be following the hottest girls or a “billion Instagram models.”
They move things too quickly
If a man inserts himself in your life too quickly with elaborate plans for the future just after a couple of dates, he’s future faking, says the dating coach.
Future faking is when someone makes big plans with you with no intentions of making it come true or thinking of a commitment.
“No two-week relationship should feel like you’ve been together for years and you owe this person your life,” she says.
Always trust your gut
Your mind and heart may play games owing to the emotions developed while dating, but the gut never lies.
The dating coach advises you to trust your gut and cancel the relationship with the man if you feel something’s off. You may not put your finger on it, but intuitions are believed to almost always come true.
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