Ellen Pompeo reveals her husband's reaction to her steamy Grey's Anatomy sex scenes

Ellen Pompeo's husband Chris Ivery found her 'Grey's Anatomy' sex scenes with Patrick Dempsey "hard" at first.

The 51-year-old actress - who played Meredith Grey in the long-running drama - has confessed her spouse “had no idea what he was getting into" when he found out his wife shares some intimate screen time with the 55-year-old heartthrob's neurosurgeon alter ego Derek 'McDreamy' Shepherd.

Speaking on InStyle's 'Ladies First with Laura Brown' podcast, she spilled: “I remember in the beginning it was really hard for him. He was like, ‘This is not what I signed up for. You go to work and make out with that. I like Patrick and everything, he’s a good dude, but like really?'”

Meanwhile, Ellen previously admitted she felt like she "had something to prove" after Patrick left 'Grey's Anatomy' in 2015.

She shared: "When Patrick left, I had something to prove.

"He left season 11, and then I was renegotiating season 12, so I could have left, because the man left, which is not the story I want to tell."

Ellen was instead determined to prove that the show could be a success without Patrick.

She continued: "They had put that in my head for so long, that I was no good without him.

"I had to rewrite the ending of that story and, say, well, 'Who's right? Am I actually good without him?' I had to take over that script and rewrite that story and prove to myself that they were wrong."

Ellen saw Patrick's exit as an opportunity for herself.

She explained: "I was just so beat down and meant to feel like they could do the show without me.

"Patrick Dempsey leaving the show was that for me. I was like, 'Oh, I have a window here, now how are they going to tell me they don't need me?'"

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