DEAR ANNIE: My husband and I are in our mid-60s and have been married for almost 50 years. We married and started our family very early in life. My problem, I’m sure, is shared by many women my age. My husband can’t stop ogling other women in public. He is always secretly looking up the sexually dressed women and videos.
I have told him many times how that hurts me. He says he’s sorry, but then later his behavior rears its ugly head again.
He also is very friendly with females in public. He says he’s just being nice. I’ve gotten so that I don’t want to go to public places with him. I love him, but I don’t like how he disrespects me as his wife and especially as a woman. I can’t compete with what’s out there, nor do I want to. -- Disrespected Wife
DEAR DISRESPECTED WIFE: Your husband is acting like a louse. You should keep talking to him about how disrespected you feel he is being to you and to the women who he is ogling in public. If he continues to ignore your requests, it is time to seek the help of a professional marriage counselor.
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