There are numerous rules of dating. Some want to feel accepted, and others like to be chased. A dating coach says working a few psychological tricks will make a man always come after you.
Our personality directly influences the people we attract into our lives. If you’re tired of chasing disinterested men, perhaps it’s time to turn the tables.
Dating coach’s advice to make a man ‘chase you’
TikTok dating coach @hothighpriestess claims she knows just the thing that’ll make a man keep trying to get you, based on all the psychological research she’s done.
Don’t be easily available
According to the dating coach, you should “never make yourself too available for a man.” So keep busy or pretend like you are.
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She says immediate responses to all his texts and calls will make you look as if you’ve been eagerly waiting for him and that isn’t what makes a man come after you; it only pushes him away.
This also applies to planning a date and you shouldn’t be readily available when he asks, she says. Tell him to plan “at least a week in advance”, regardless of your schedule.
‘Act like’ his nicest gestures are expected
For hopeless romantics like me, it’s easy to get carried away by every little but sweet thing a man does. But the dating coach says you should never show your genuine feelings about it.
“You need to act like the nice things he does for you are expected. This is standard,” she says, after advising that you should never be overly impressed by his behavior.
Supposedly, a man will stop chasing you if you make the things he does for you seem spectacular.
Be okay with the rejection
Don’t act desperate when a man walks away at any point. However, unlike the first two points, you should be “truly okay” with the rejection.
hothighpriestess says the man will feel your energy when you don’t chase, and this will only make him chase you more.
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hothighpriestess is featured in leading media outlets such as Elle, Cosmo, and Vogue for her expertise in dating and relationships. She boasts over 2.5 million followers on TikTok and has a podcast of the same name focusing on self-help and dating advice.
