Man hailed 'top tier husband' over the list he keeps about his partner

A man has become the most popular guy on the internet after he shared the incredibly touching list he keeps of his fiance’s favorite things.

The internet has a habit of labeling things as a “green flag” at the moment, as evidenced by a father’s supportive message to his heartbroken daughter. Though what constitutes a green flag changes somewhat between situations, like what men do when they miss you, the general themes seem to be compassion, empathy, and emotional intelligence.

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Listen up guys, this is how you do it

In the land of relationship advice, which also includes why you shouldn’t be engaging in the Soft Guy Era, Alex Warren’s (@alexwarrenism) master list might be the most touching.

Taking to TikTok last week, Alex told his 96k followers that he often finds himself opening his Notes app when his fiancee says she likes literally anything.

“Everytime she likes something… NOTES,” he captioned the post which has since garnered 1.4 million views and 222k likes.

Opening the notes app, viewers could see how Alex kept his girlfriend’s “basic information” in a section at the top of the page. This included info like her full name, birthday, and her hometown.

The following section was labeled “favorites” and featured everything from his fiancee’s favorite color (pink), all the way to her favorite drink, which was Arizona Tea. Other inclusions included her favorite TV show (Grey’s Anatomy), season (summer), snack (cheese puffs), food (sushi), and even her favorite holiday (Christmas).

But it doesn’t stop there as Alex also included his girlfriend’s order for the likes of McDonald’s, Taco Bell, Subway, and Chipotle. The food and drink section also highlighted specific meals for breakfast, lunch, and dinner.

Further down the list, Alex included information on his fiance’s makeup and skincare routines, though we noticed she was lacking the new Garnier moisturizer that is all the rage on social media.

Shockingly, Alex continued to scroll through the document for around 15 seconds, demonstrating the amount of work he had put into understanding his fiance’s favorite things.

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‘To be loved is to be known’

After posting the clip, Alex’s comment section was flooded with a mix of adoring messages and those wanting to ditch their husband for him.

One person wrote: “Pretty sure you know more about her than I know about myself.”

“Brb going to fight with my husband as to why he doesn’t have this in his notes,” a second said, while another commented, “I need a man who cares and pays this much attention to things!!!!”